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Author: Billy Baker

How to Get a Guy Interested

Have you ever wondered how to get a guy? Looked around, seen lots of women with stunning men, and wondered what they have that you don't? Have you ever wondered how to get a man to chase you? What about how to get a man to propose? Or, just how to get a guy at all? Getting a man to fall in love with you is probably the last thing you should be thinking about. If these are some of the questions foremost on your mind then you are likely to chase any guys away. Are you wondering why you are still single?

The first thing is you need to like yourself. Confidence is the key. Be who you are and stop worrying about being single. Being single can be a lot of fun. Be comfortable with yourself and don't put too much importance on how to get a guy to like you. Do you really want a man to chase you if you have to pretend to be something you are not? The likelihood is you will not be able to keep up any pretense for long. Be elusive but fun and friendly. Don't always be instantly available when asked on a date when you start courting. The only types of guys intimidated by secure, independent women are insecure themselves. This is hardly the type of man you want to attract. Is it?

If the guy that holds your interest hasn't noticed you yet, take the initiative and strike up a conversation. Otherwise, how can he know you are around? Ask him about himself - his likes, dislikes, how he sees life, what he wants to do - let him know about you too. While this may take a little courage, what have you got to lose? Nothing - right?

If you are interested in a guy, have patience. Don't rush in or try to hurry things along as this could scare them off. If they don't return your call, don't get obsessive and continually call back. Give them some space. Don't force yourself onto the person you are attracted to; let things go at a natural pace. You will know soon enough if he is interested in you and, if he isn't, then he wasn't the right one for you anyway.

Tips on How to get a Guy to Notice You

Men and women are as fickle as the weather and there is no guaranteed way to get a guy, but here are a few tips that may help:

- Be a nice person. While this may intimidate some men, who can resist someone who is funny, kind and self-motivated? If being who you are doesn't attract the right guy for you straight away don't worry. The right guy will come along eventually.

- Start off being friends with someone and see what develops between you. It may be that once you get to know each other things will develop further or, maybe you will find you are better suited as friends.

- Remember, you can not change the chemistry between you. If he is not interested, he is not interested - so move on. You will meet someone else along the track. You can only be who you are, but you can not change how a guy thinks or feels. Put yourself in their shoes. Have you ever had a guy show interest in you that you just weren't interested in? How did you feel?

- Whatever you do, don't talk about other guys you are interested in when you are out with someone else. This is an instant way to lose his interest.

- If the guy you have your heart set on does not show interest in you, it may just mean he does not know how or is out of practice. Have some patience without overwhelming him.

Now you have some things to think about - just enjoy your life as the amazing person you are and, if you meet someone you like, just let it happen naturally (with a little nudge).

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