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Why choose a handmade card over a bought one? It's easy to see why. There you are at birthday time, hoping, and perhaps expecting that your nearest and dearest will make the effort to give you a card. What would say most about how they feel about you?
A bought card that could be given to any Tom, Dick or Harry? Or a handmade card that they've taken time and effort over?
It's a no-brainer really, isn't it? What card is likely to be kept the longest, looked at the most, and passed around to others...?
Yes, whilst we might be impressed by the quality of a bought card (usually unlikely) or indeed the sentiment (often bland), it's pretty certain that the handmade has it.
Now before you go rushing to the corner fearing that your handmade, will look home-made, panic not and look at the bigger picture - the emotion and feeling behind the thought.
1. Do you really think that your nearest and dearest will 'pick apart' a handmade offering?
2. Is it probable that they will eye it with expert scrutiny and notice every scissor nick, every glue spot and every tiny embellishment as they take in your lovingly crafted card?
I think not! Hopefully they will be overwhelmed by the effort you've taken, the love you've imparted and the feelings and affection you're sharing as you create a birthday card, especially for them.
Of course, if you're known to be great at these things then there may be more expectation on the type and complexity of the card you plan to give, but in my view that's when the whole social point of these occasions can get a little out of proportion.
What, essentially, is the point of a birthday card after all?
1. To show love and affection for the birthday person
2. To acknowledge the passing of another year
3. To celebrate making it through the past year
I've only listed 3 here and no doubt you'll think of others.
The point of a handmade birthday card is not to get marks out of 10 for your efforts, it's to exchange affection. Seen in that light, it should take the pressure off.
On the other side of things though, you've got to acknowledge how your card will be received (yes, even after you've done the soul searching of how, and why you make it in the first place). It's to be hoped that the recipient will receive it in the spirit in which it was made.
Simply: you make it with love, and they receive it with love. It seems pretty obvious that you wouldn't put in too much time and effort to make a birthday card for someone who's unlikely to appreciate it. Chances are that such a person might not be on your birthday card list anyway and wouldn't warrant even a 'shop-bought' card.
So what it boils down to then is not the finished product, but the purpose and motivation behind the card.
Oh I know that's easy for me to say. Yes, we shouldn't care really about looks, but concentrate on the point of it all.
Perhaps we should begin to question how we got railroaded into parting with our cash at present giving time in the first place. In the 'olden days' there was nothing else for it - you made both your greeting cards and your gifts. People became inventive in what they created and everything was accepted in the spirit in which it was intended.
But then too, there weren't any expensive alternatives.
Do you really think you'll be judged on the type of card you give?
It's true that we get swept into the social exchange of cards and gifts often without thinking of the real cost of the process. What value do we place on making a card for someone we care about?
The craft industry knows this one very well. Making cards is big business. Cards sell on both the look and the message. Shop cards, kit cards; they all vie for our attention, and we can get caught up in the appearance of the thing.
Perhaps its time to go back to basics again as they did in days gone by. It'll take a brave soul to shun convention and create a birthday card for the sheer joy of it. Because the cynic in me knows that looks usually win over sentiment.
But what's wrong with making a birthday card without worrying about the finish and presentation, and concentrating on the process instead?
If we've chosen the right recipient then the Birthday boy or girl will love it all the same.
Geraldine Jozefiak has written widely on how to craft a handmade card for someone special. Greeting Card Guide gives you the latest news, trends and products to make your greeting card selection as quick, fun and painless as possible.
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