Articles by Pat Wiklund
- How to Kill Your Love Life and Prevent Satisfying Senior Sex
If you are looking for a quick and easy way to kill your chances for a satisfying love life, you can't do better than drink too much or smoke. Even smoke a little. Both of these two can quickly kill your love life. Published 10Sep2009, viewed 124 times
- How to Slip into Not Having Senior Sex At All
No one goes to bed at night, has satisfying senior sex, and then decides to never makes love again. For most couples slipping into what some professionals call the "sexless marriage" is not a decision or a choice. It just sort of happens. This unfortunate situation is characterized as those marriages, or significant relationships, where the couple has sexual relations less than 10 times a year. The reasons for this pattern are many. Published 05Sep2009, viewed 355 times
- Predictable Changes of Hormones Women Experience as They Age
For women, the changes of aging may seem obvious. However, the decrease of hormones brought on by menopause can cause very different reactions among women, both physically and emotionally. Most women find their sexual feelings and experiences change a lot, and can need some accommodation. Published 01Sep2009, viewed 119 times
- Is Depression Destroying Your Satisfying Senior Sex?
One of the most common causes of low sexual drive among seniors, for both men and women, is having trouble with your relationship with yourself. Especially if you are depressed, or feeling down on yourself. Ignoring depression, or pretending things are "just fine" is an understandable, but unproductive response. Start to turn around your depression and your low sexual drive by understanding the connection between the two. Published 30Aug2009, viewed 370 times
- Men's Predicable Changes of Aging that Interfere with Satisfying Senior Sex
Lots has been written about the challenges of women as they age, go through menopause, and struggle with feeling loving with fewer hormones. While many men don't notice their decreasing hormone levels, their body does. Especially when it comes to getting and keeping an erection. Published 20Aug2009, viewed 90 times
- Are You Sabotaging Satisfying Senior Sex with These Foods?
It isn't just how much weight you are carrying, but eating of too much of the wrong kinds of food can do to your ability to enjoy your sex life. The biggest culprits for sabotaging satisfying senior sex are the same ones that cause of the "obesity epidemic." Eating too much of any of these three can sorely impact your love life. Published 11Aug2009, viewed 130 times
- Satisfying Senior Sex Sometimes Means Making a Different Effort
It may be difficult to accept you can't be the sexual giant you used to be. Especially if intercourse can no longer be a part of your lovemaking. Talking is not enough. Nor is love. Which means putting in some time learning more about your body, understanding what you need to do to bring more enjoyment into your lovemaking. Particularly when ED is a part of your life. Published 14Aug2009, viewed 132 times
- How Many Men Really Do Have ED?
It's not all that easy to know how many men really have ED. The numbers seem to be so high. Different studies report different numbers. How can you tell if they are accurate? Or, is it just one more example of "how to lie with statistics?" Published 12Aug2009, viewed 92 times
- Your Satisfying Senior Sex May be Tanking in Your Kitchen
It's simple: what happens in the kitchen affects what can happen in the bedroom. If you're not careful, you'll eat too much of what can interfere with satisfying senior sex, and too little of what can be helpful. Find out what may be causing your troubles. Published 18Jul2009, viewed 155 times
- A Woman's Reaction to His ED Often Doesn't Help
Little attention has been paid to how women react when they fear their love is struggling with ED. Not only do women have to deal with their fears about their man, but need to deal with their own feelings as theycome to grips with what it will mean to them, and how to be most helpful and supportive. Unfortunately, the most common reactions women have to a fear of ED are not necessarily all that helpful. Published 16Jul2009, viewed 165 times
- Is Hurt or Anger Destroying Your Satisfying Senior Sex?
One of the most common reasons older couples get into sexless marriages is when they've let some old hurt, or anger that's never been resolved ruin their love life. How to get past being stuck? Ask yourself the Dr. Phil question, "How's that working for you?" Published 12Jul2009, viewed 214 times
- Take Charge of the Normal Changes of Aging to Support More Satisfying Senior Sex
The number one change, the one both women and men notice first as they get older, is making love just takes longer. This isn't because there's something wrong with you. It is just one more fact of life about aging. The antidote when it comes to satisfying senior sex? Use or it lose it. Published 08Jul2009, viewed 52 times
- Are You Asking Your Doctor the Wrong Question about ED?
Talking to your doc about ED is really hard for most men. It is hard to bring up the subject of sex. Even for doctors. Be prepared with the right kinds of questions to make sure you'll get the information you want and need at your next doctor appointment. Published 19Jun2009, viewed 79 times
- Don't Let these Common Traps Destroy Your Satisfying Senior Sex
Intimacy, like all of our behaviors waxes and wanes throughout the course of any relationship. Just be sure you don't fall into one of these common traps that can sidetrack your relationship, lose the intimacy that you once enjoyed, and prevent your senior sex life from being as satisfying as you'd like. Published 16Jun2009, viewed 88 times
- For More Satisfying Senior Sex, Get Your Mama Out of Your Head
I don't know about you, but I find it appalling that I can still hear my mom's voice tell me what I should do, or shouldn't' do, especially when it comes to sex. Now, as older adults, many of us are still following our mom's rules when it comes to sex. Are you still letting her decide what your love life is all about? Published 10Jun2009, viewed 145 times
- Satisfying Senior is Fueled by Activity
Taking care of your body is the most important thing you can do to increase your ability to be sexual longer and more effectively. It's your tool for more satisfying senior sex. Making love takes lots of energy and flexibility. Strong, healthy nerves, hearts and arteries are a great start. Don't forget to add strong, healthy bones and muscles to your list. For most of us, this means getting more activity. You know, the dreaded word: exercise. Published 06Jun2009, viewed 67 times
- Socrates Had the Formula for Great Senior Sex
Sometimes it takes the wisdom of the ages to get clear about current concerns. Even if you don't know why ancient philosophers said what they said, their advice is as current as today. Especially when you apply it to having more satisfying senior sex. Published 01May2009, viewed 134 times
- Is Male Menopause Interfering with Your Satisfying Senior Sex?
Do Men have "Menopause"? The quick answer is yes. But, what effects it can have and what to do about those effects can not so be answered so quickly or easily. Get the information you need to make good decisions for yourself, and for more satisfying senior sex. Published 29Apr2009, viewed 115 times
- Is Poor Communication Sabotaging Your Great Senior Sex?
Every client I've ever worked with, both on personal issues and in the work place, has placed the blame of the difficulties they're having to communication. What's interesting is the vast differences in what people mean about communication problems. And how these differences sabotage their getting past their difficulties. Published 27Apr2009, viewed 80 times
- Is "Lazy Lover Syndrome" Sabotaging Your Satisfying Senior Sex?
Recently a woman was complaining to me about how relations with her new lover were not all that good. After hearing her complaints, it seemed to be a classic case of Lazy Love Syndrome. I have to admit, I made the term up...but it seemed an accurate description of what he was/wasn't doing that left her unsatisfied. Published 15Apr2009, viewed 130 times
- Satisfying Senior Sex Doesn't Need a Huge Penis!
If you could see the spam filter file for my email, you'd be convinced the most important feature of lovemaking for women is how big your penis is. They should have asked real women what difference size makes, not someone who is trying to sell some version of modern day snake oil that supposedly will make your penis grow. Published 13Apr2009, viewed 177 times
- Is Your Relationship with Yourself Sabotaging Satisfying Senior Sex?
The relationship we have with ourselves, how we feel and think about who we are and what we do, is a major cause of sexual difficulties, especially ED. Don't let your fears and concerns sabotage satisfying senior sex. Published 11Apr2009, viewed 94 times
- Stop Letting Low Desire Sabotage Satisfying Senior Sex
Low sexual desire is more than a stereotype. Diminished desire is a major factor in decreasing both the number of times seniors have sex, and the satisfaction they experience with senior sex. Which is really too bad, because all intimacy, for both older and younger people, starts with desire. Published 06Apr2009, viewed 101 times
- For More Satisfying Senior Sex Put Your Love Into Action
Sex Therapist Dr Pat Wiklund has helped countless couples increase the satisfaction they experience with their intimate life by purposely acting more loving towards one another. Claim your complimentary copy of her latest audio learning program with specific suggestions for making your senior loving more satisfying no matter how old you are or how old you get to be. Just go to: http://SatisfyingSeniorSex.com/audio Published 04Apr2009, viewed 146 times
- For Great Senior Sex Reawaken Your Love'n Feelings
One of the most common patterns for couples who have been together for a long time is losing that love'n feeling. Slowly, you start to take one another for granted, and move further and further away. Making love is usually one of the first activities to go. And, it will take some effort to get it back. For great senior sex, make the effort. Published 26Mar2009, viewed 96 times
- Can Sex Therapy Lead to More Satisfying Senior Sex?
Most people are intrigued by the idea of sex therapy, but have no idea of what it entails, what clients and therapists do, and are afraid the first step is always taking off your clothes. Let's get some straight talk about sex therapy. Published 15Mar2009, viewed 121 times
- Satisfying Senior Sex is not about the Pill
To listen to all the uproar, you'd think The Pill, you know the little blue one, was the be all, end all solution to ED. But, taking a pill assumes you have a medical problem. Yet most of the problems men experience with erections are not caused by medical issues. And the research data confirms this. Less than half of the prescriptions for ED pills are refilled. Published 05Mar2009, viewed 80 times
- Build Your On-line Prospects List Off-line
The biggest myth about developing an on-line list of prospects is that you have to gather names on-line. Not so. One of the best ways to gather contact information from prospects is off-line, especially in person. Learn simple tips on building your prospect list! Published 25Apr2008, viewed 131 times
- Audio Marketing - An Idea Whose Time Has Come!
Using audio for online and off line marketing, or even product development, has enabled many professionals to bypass their own limitations, and serve their market much more effectively. Much can be accomplished with either low-tech tools, or simple online services. Learn several tips to start marketing with audio today! Published 02Apr2008, viewed 206 times
- Start Making Real Money: Get Better Known By Clients and Colleagues
The key to making real money is to be well known by your potential clients and colleagues. This may seem to take much too much time away from your day-to-day business, but it is crucial when you want to place yourself in your community as an expert in your field. Learn how a few simple steps can get you better know to the people who matter most in your business. Published 23Sep2007, viewed 190 times
- Struggling with Legacy Software?
Legacy software, the high tech industry’s term for software that has been on a system forever, through many upgrades of hardware, and changes in the business systems and processes, often can be more of a hindrance than a help. Learn how just by cleaning up your software can save you time and money. Published 22Sep2007, viewed 164 times
- Of Course You Can Develop Products
Virtually every One-Person Business owner I've worked with has both products and services. Some of them just don't realize what they have. Don't let thinking you only provide a service, don't have products, or don’t know how to get started, slow you down. Time to learn from OPE (other people's experiences). Published 11Jul2007, viewed 165 times
- Market With Every E-mail You Send
Learn how to use signature files to market your small business with every e-mail you send. The best way to market yourself with every e-mail you send is to have your own e-mail address at your own domain name, but if you don't have your own domain, using signature files will get you noticed and make you memorable! Published 27Jun2007, viewed 176 times
- Clean up Your Act! 10 Tips to Steamline Your Office for a More Successful One-Person Business
Stop wasting time looking for papers lost on your desk, running down to the office supply store for last minute printer ribbons, or working 24-7. Use these 10 tips to get more organized, streamline your repetitive activities and plan ahead to prevent office crises and uproar. Published 29Mar2007, viewed 329 times
- One Product / Service / Client Does NOT Make a Business
One service, one big client, one product, does not make a one-person business that can thrive. And, it can get you in hot water if your one client with your one product or service is corporate: you start to look too much like an employee to keep the IRS happy. Published 22Mar2007, viewed 242 times
- Develop Your Ops Manual
Your Operations Manual is a crucial tool in your Internal Management tool kit. It contains all the information you need to run your business day-by-day, face crises calmly, and lets you to back fill in a hurry. Published 15Mar2007, viewed 268 times
- Follow up: Key to Networking Success
Following up on networking is crucial. Many small business owners don’t follow up either because they don’t know what to do or feel they need to do too much. Two networking follow up experts tell you how to follow up easily and effectively. Published 08Mar2007, viewed 278 times
- Budget is not a Four-Letter Word
Your budget, your financial records, and record keeping systems, lets you decide how to best leverage your strengths, knowledge, and skills to increase the income and profitability of your professional services business. Published 02Mar2007, viewed 296 times
- Sell The Sizzle Not The Steak
Most of our prospects don't really care what we do, where we got our training or degrees, or what tools we use. Selling is not about us….but about the prospect! Published 15Feb2007, viewed 304 times
- Get Your Systems In Place Now!
The myth of automation says computers will solve all our problems. Not so! If we don't have good systems before we automate, we'll have terrible ones, unworkable systems, after we try to put them on a computer. Published 06Feb2007, viewed 208 times
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