http://www.submityourarticle.com/articles/Elsabe-Smit-3519 The latest quality free reprint articles from Elsabe Smit at SubmitYOURArticle.com Sun, 19 Feb 2012 05:10:56 +0000 Marriage vows should last as long as both parties benefit from the relationship. When the marriage comes to an end, people often remain married because of religious guilt or social pressure, and they die a slow death while holding on to the marriage. http://www.submityourarticle.com/articles/Elsabe-Smit-3519/Marriage-101603.php Mon, 31 May 2010 09:01:22 +0000 We do much damage to ourselves by holding on to a relationship that has come to a natural end. Once we understand what the purpose of the relationship is, it becomes much easier to learn from the experience and feel gratitude towards our partners and teachers. http://www.submityourarticle.com/articles/Elsabe-Smit-3519/love-99931.php Sun, 23 May 2010 22:30:07 +0000 Does focus, drive, planning or anything else speed up our destinies? No, it makes no difference. We struggle against ourselves until we give ourselves permission to take the next step. No other person can speed up or slow down the experience. What is far more important than the end result is the experience itself. Yet we focus so much on the end result that we miss the nuances of the experience. http://www.submityourarticle.com/articles/Elsabe-Smit-3519/Physical-85434.php Wed, 10 Feb 2010 13:34:56 +0000 Bullies are people who have been deeply hurt and who lash out to the world to give that hurt back. If we can respond to bullies with Love, we help them to Love themselves. We also learn how to Love ourselves. http://www.submityourarticle.com/articles/Elsabe-Smit-3519/being-bullied-83388.php Wed, 27 Jan 2010 12:01:20 +0000 There are a few simple steps to making the Secret work. Step one is always perfect. Once we have experienced step one, we start to sabotage ourselves. Whatever we do from there onwards, proves the point that we want to prove - including our conviction that the Secret does not work for us. We cause our own stress because we do not understand how we sabotage ourselves. http://www.submityourarticle.com/articles/Elsabe-Smit-3519/Physical-80635.php Wed, 13 Jan 2010 22:00:03 +0000 Being made redundant is a life-changing experience and a privilege. Too many people see redundancy as a failure when it is in fact a release and a new opportunity. More people will be made redundant in future. The best way to deal with it is to prepare for the opportunity. http://www.submityourarticle.com/articles/Elsabe-Smit-3519/Physical-77481.php Fri, 18 Dec 2009 00:47:29 +0000 Following the call of your heart and your inner voice initially takes courage, but once you do it, there is no stopping you. Good stress is not having enough hours in the day to do what you love doing. Bad stress is not having enough hours in the day to comply with the demands of another person's life calling. When you follow your heart, you live an authentic life. http://www.submityourarticle.com/articles/Elsabe-Smit-3519/Physical-76568.php Wed, 09 Dec 2009 13:50:03 +0000 Life might be difficult or life might be interesting. We get born to experience a specific series of life lessons. We die when we have completed our lessons, or when our resistance against the lessons get so much that our physical bodies can no longer cope under the strain. We can reduce our stress and live healthy, content lives. http://www.submityourarticle.com/articles/Elsabe-Smit-3519/Physical-75741.php Thu, 03 Dec 2009 12:34:37 +0000 Energy-takers are not easy to be around because they drain our energy. Energy-creators either contribute to the world and inspire us, or give their energy away without being aware of it. If you have difficulty sleeping you could be in the wrong job because your energy is drained by an energy-taker or by those activities that go against who you are. http://www.submityourarticle.com/articles/Elsabe-Smit-3519/Physical-75282.php Sat, 28 Nov 2009 00:01:07 +0000 We make New Year's resolutions because we want to reduce the stress we experience. The result is more stress, because we place unreasonable demands on ourselves. The solution is to deal with the cause of any stress, learn valuable lessons and take charge of your life. http://www.submityourarticle.com/articles/Elsabe-Smit-3519/Physical-74138.php Thu, 19 Nov 2009 16:23:02 +0000